It’s time we had an honest, heartfelt conversation about compassion. Yes, that warm and fuzzy, touchy-feely word we associate with goodness… NOT. Compassion is not those things. Compassion is mostly disabling and dysfunctional.
Not to throw the baby out with the bathwater here, compassion is a natural and probably useful feeling for the hopelessly and terminally ill, the hopelessly depressed aged and abused children too young to take charge of their lives. In all other cases it really doesn’t serve us or the recipients we feel compassionate toward. Read more